Stop complicating things. Don't try to fight the situation, adapt to it.
Don't berate yourself for mistakes, learn from them. Accept wisdom learned as a gift.
Think about Coyote:
Cleaver and adaptable, the coyote survives. When hunting, they hunt in pairs, using a relay cooperative effort. One chases while one rests. Their family unit is close-knit and many mate for life. They look out for and protect each other, yet they are playful and want to have fun. While looked at as a pest by many, coyotes still have a sociable nature, wit and cleverness.
Call on Coyote energy to:
Move beyond embarrassment of foolish acts
Become more sociable and accepting of your child within
Accept your idiosyncracies with humor, rather than shame
Find the wisdom from your mistakes or missteps
Coyote medicine teaches us:
To take things less seriously
To forgive ourselves for our mistakes
To 'go with the flow' rather than fight or run from a situation